Karakter kiri kanan kita #1

I've decided that i want to write about people. Bukan specifically mengutuk, but i'd like to think of it as a... research? We as humans, kita ni pelik bukan. Kita semua di bawah satu label yang serupa iaitu manusia. Tapi hakikatnya kita langsung tidak serupa. Sebab itu aku rasa kita ni suatu spesis yang unik. Sekejap kita angelik sekejap kita setan. Fuh power gila kita.

For this first type of post, aku nak sentuh tentang manusia yang membenci for no reasons. Maksud aku, mereka yang jenis tak kenal pun siapa diri kau, tak pernah terkesan pun dengan segala perbuatan kau, senang cerita, tak ada watak pun dalam kisah hidup kau, but still hates you anyway. Just because.

Weird huh. Kadangkadang kita terfikir, apa salah kita. Kita sendiri pun tak pernah kenal dia, and the next thing you know you're on top of his/her hate list. Maybe somewhere between living our life and having fun, we made mistakes. Sure, semua orang pun macam itu. But that doesnt give you the rights to just hate somebody. Siapa kita nak judge kalau kita sendiri pun tak kenal orang tu? Setakat tahu nama dan jadi friends dalam Facebook, kau boleh blah kalau kau kata kau kenal.

Now dont act like you've never been this type of person. Pernah tak kau tengok classmate kau yang nampak gedik semacam and terus rasa menyampah? Padahal dia tak buat apa apa pun. Think back, kau rasa kau layak ke rasa macam tu. Do you really think that he/she deserves the hate? Kalau macamtu kau pun layak dibenci.

And pernah tak ada someone you knew in college made a mistake, terus kau membabi buta fikir dia lah yang paling setan. Walaupun kesilapan itu tak ada kaitan langsung dengan kau, dan kau cuma mendengar rumours. Kebencian kau tetap membuakbuak. Well that's just wrong. Try and get to know that person a little better. Maybe that person turns out to be innocent, atau there's a reason behind his/her action. Mana lah tahu kan. Sometimes the meanest person can be the swetest person. And it works the other way round too.

Aku bebel semua ni, aku pun macamni jugak at times. Hating for no reason. I felt bad. Kita ejek orang tu, kita kutuk dia, make fun of segala benda yang dia buat. At the end of the day, aku terfikir. "What did he/she ever do to me?"

Unless, orang tu memang buat tahi dengan kita. Well itu dah cerita lain.

Dan sekarang aku rasa it's time untuk kita berubah. Don't hate a person until they give you a reason to, okay?